My brother is getting nervous about his wedding. He sends me emails all the time with questions, remarks and changing schedules. I try to convince him that everything will be fine and that everything is arranged by me of my sister. But he still wants to be in control and he makes sure that the things he can arrange will be perfect. The day before the wedding my sister and I will be helping him and his "soon to be" wife with the flowers and some other practical matters. In the evening before the big day we have a rehearsal of a beautiful song we are going to sing, of course without my brother and his girlfriend. That stays a secret.